2025 is a new year and it’s time for a new you. Get out of the rut of a love life and find someone special.
The countdown to valentines day has begun, with 39 days to go, is that time to find love? Yes, it is, however you best be quick if you want to book or be booked into a fancy restaurant. The 14th of February is an extra special day for another reason, as this year it falls on a Friday, fri-yay, as many say. Whilst it may not be lucky, it is not unlucky like next year’s valentines day will be – as that’s on Friday the 13th!
As you may already know February is the month for those of us who are Aquarius and Pisces, with the 14th sitting right at the end of the Aquarius period.
Looking at the planets
There are three good sign for getting onto the dating seen now; with Mercury, Venus, and Uranus.
Our smallest planet Mercury is not in retrograde and will not be until the month after, starting on the 14th. Mercury is the ruler of communication in all forms, which is a key part of any relationship.
The hot mess: Venus is also moving forward, until March the 2nd, when it will go into retrograde. Venus is the ruler of courtship and adoration of course.
The distant giant: Uranus will end it’s retrograde on the 4th of February, in time for some outwards living and experience something new. Uranus rules creativity and scientific genius, so think of something creative for that date.
However it’s not all thrills, a word of warning: March may be a troubling month for some newer relationships if they are not built on strong foundations with Mercury and Venus both doing into retrograde by the middle of the month.
Best Foot Forward
With all those singles out there who do you find the right person for you? Here are some of our tips!
- Work on Yourself.
Hopefully you have use Uranus’s time in Retrograde to develop self-confidence, pursue your passions, and focus on personal growth. Being happy and fulfilled on your own makes you more attractive to others. - Maintain Good Hygiene and Presentation.
Brat summer is over so it’s time to dress well, groom regularly, and take care of your physical health. First impressions matter. - Develop Communication Skills
Listen actively, show genuine interest in others, and practice open and respectful communication. Make Mercury proud! - Be Positive and Approachable
New Year, new you! A friendly and optimistic attitude makes you more appealing and easier to connect with. - Expand Your Social Circles
Attend social events, join clubs or activities that align with your interests. Forget about online dating platforms and go to an in person event. - Be Authentic
Be true to yourself and let your genuine personality shine. People are drawn to authenticity. Matthew Mcconaughey said that cool people don’t change themselves depending on who they are around, they just are. - Show Kindness and Empathy
Demonstrate compassion and understanding toward others. It creates a foundation for meaningful relationships. - Have Clear Values and Boundaries
Know what you want in a relationship and be upfront about your goals, ensuring mutual respect and compatibility
Where to go from here?
Check out a compatibility chart and don’t be bashful asking for someone star sign so you know right away if you could work out.